There comes a point in time In every mothers life where baby showers shouldn't be expected. Considering you still have toddlers baby supplies and clothing shouldn't be that hard to come across. I'm certain you got enough family members between the both of yawl that can donate.
I'd rather you'd had been registered somewhere it would of allowed your fans to feel as though they were connected some how in you and your families happiness in welcoming a new baby. Just asking for money comes off as "Tacky and Pretentious".
Children are a blessing it is true. I think you should of made it about blessing others who aren't capable of getting on instagram and asking for a donation and gain attention from the followers on said platform. I'm still waiting to see the selfless little Mo. Let me know when she shows up.